Initial Pages (Credits, Reviews, Preface, Table of Contentents)
Before We Start
- How Have We Tried to Heal from Complex Trauma?
- What if We’ve Been Overthinking It?
- The Ethics of Not Treating Trauma
- The Boat and the Whale Metaphor
- EMDR Is Not a Magic Wand
- No Part of This Is Easy
- Therapist Anxiety
- What Makes Complex Trauma So Complex for EMDR Therapy
- All the Hats You Wear
- How We Train You
Phase One
Phase Two
- Phase Two Isn’t Just Mindfulness Resources
- The Utility of Parts Work
- “Mindfulness Doesn’t Work for Me:” Teaching It Differently
- Why Attachment Resources are Often Needed
- The Attachment Figure Resource Script
- Introducing Fire Extinguisher Resources Early
- Dip Your Toe In Sensory Grounding
- Dip Your Toe In For Flashbacks Script
- Dip Your Toe In Body Scan Script
- Dip Your Toe In Calm Scene Script
- Dip Your Toe In Blue Smoke Breathing Script
- Dip Your Toe In Hand Breathing Script
- Dip Your Toe In Attachment Figure Resource
- More About Consent From Parts
- Where the Standard EMDR Resources Tend to Go Bad and How to Fix Them
- The Utility of Containment
- “And Then the Client Dissociated”
- Blocking Beliefs Are Also Phase Two Problems
- What Does Prepared Enough Mean?
Phases Three-Seven
- The Utility of Informed Consent
- Helping Clients Understand Their Role in this Dance
- There is Nothing to Figure Out Today
- Oh My, Where Do We Start?
- The Canaries in the Coal Mine
- Why Overactivation is a Problem in EMDR Therapy
- The Videotape Approach
- The Videotape Approach Script
- When to Let Memories In, When to Container
- Where Clients Get Stuck and How to Intervene
- The Quicksand of Attachment Wound Targets
- Understanding the Developmental Deficits of Attachment Wounds
- Why Finishing Things Matters in EMDR Therapy
- EMDR Therapy and Grief
- Additional Strategies for Working with Absences in Memory
- Trouble Finding an Individual Memory when Trauma was Daily
Phase Eight
Short Answers to Common Consult Questions